The way out of this rat race!

We all think about it (some of us more than others). Leaving paid employment and starting our own thing. I think it's an ambition that enables us reach within ourselves to evaluate our capacity. However, it isn't romantic, no no no, that, it isn't. So, if the only reason you are thinking of quitting your job and starting a business is so that you can: catch up on those years of sleep deprivation, report to no one, skip work days, pay yourself that dream salary figure ...... then be prepared for a rude shock and some.

Before you quit your job, start your research on the possible businesses you want to go into, the cost of commencing this business and running it, consider the basics that you would need for the business to be able to deliver to its intended clientele, how do you intend to source for this needed capital (family, savings, partners etc), understand that you may have to budget for minimal income generation in the first few years of business, as well as fixed or even increasing cost. The aim of putting all these (and more) in perspective isn't to kill the dream or paralyse you, but to ensure that you are somewhat prepared to succeed.

I would recommend that you read Robert Kiyosaki's book titled: "Before You Quit Your Job" .... you don't say!

Personally, I vote for starting the process while you are in employment. Apart from your savings, your income from employment can be a buffer from complete disaster or starvation (if it gets to that). Also, it motivates you to create a structure that can run independent of you, as well as, take certain risks.

All in all, regardless of the route you choose, whether starting your own business or taking an early retirement, if you want out, the key is to save! save!! save!!! and consistently save. That's the first step.

As time goes by.....

Sometimes, in your career, it may feel like you left a decision too late. Maybe you should have quit when you were much younger, or started those professional exams sooner. It's quite possible that you are right, but what's done is done. Dwelling on the past won't change a thing and would only increase your chances of a heart attack before the age of 50. Charting your path from your current location is the way to go.

So you think you can't take a big risk? Then take a little one. Start small. Learn a new language. Write that professional exam you've been thinking of. The opportunity for the change you are hoping for may just follow. You will never know if you don't take that first step.

Every employee's fantasy... or is that just me!

So Greg Smith did what, I bet, many of us have fantasized doing. Those crazy days when you feel unappreciated, and frankly just want to fuck-it-all, grab your jacket and storm off. Phew... if only!  You are not halfway through that thought process before you remember: the mortgage, that you haven't been as disciplined with your savings (hell, the next rent is almost due), and dammit didn't you promise to finally pay for that trip Grandma has been pining for. So you take a deep breath, look that ass-hole of a boss in the face and say "Sure thing, I'll have it ready for you in no time."

The trick to sanity at work (and hey! I'm no Dr. Phil) is to be selfish (FYI, this works for marriage too). Know that you in it because you choose to be. You are not trapped, you have a choice, it is in line with your career objectives, you are achieving what you hoped to. Give it your best, while ensuring that your goals are being met. If they are not, calmly create your exit plan. Never be too busy that you do not have a moment to evaluate these. In the words of Steven Silbiger in his book The Jewish Phenomenon "Work for yourself...always." Your boss gets the best of you, and most importantly (hopefully), you do not lose your mind.